Ever since hearing about the controversy stirred up by a "new" edition of Adventures of Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn in which the offensive racial epithets "injun" and "nigger" are replaced by "Indian" and "slave" respectively, I have been torn. I didn't like it, but I thought perhaps it was because I have never been affected by such racism or labels.
To me this is messing with a classic book. Yes, "nigger" is not a nice word, but it is the word used in the book. Are we supposed to pretend it never did?
I guess what scares me the most, is how many other books will be "adjusted" or "re-written" because some people think they should be?
On The View this morning, Whoopi Goldberg agreed that it should NOT have been changed. That is how Mark Twain wrote it. That was the language at that time. It is history. It should not be changed at the whim of a specific generation.
Monday, January 10, 2011
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Found this on a blog by another photographer, Photography by Alana Hawker. It was too good not to share with everyone...
4 Things Your Photographer Is and 4 Things They're Not
After spending countless hours, days, weeks and months perusing photographer forums I've come to the conclusion that there are 4 things your average family photographer most certainly IS and 4 things they are NOT. Please bear with me as I try to be funny through my sickie Sunday :D
4 Things Your Photographer IS...
1. A Parent
Every single family photographer I know is a parent. This means we are used to the hissy fits, the tragic meltdowns and the oil-to-water like aversion your toddler has to the camera. Every time I get an uncooperative toddler the parents apologize profusely for their behavior. Don't sweat it! It makes me feel better that my kids aren't the only ones that think standing still for 3 seconds is akin to getting your limbs ripped off. One simple apology will do just fine.
2. Patient
Sometimes it takes 10 mins of running around, dancing like a fool, making silly noises, and talking about crazy monkeys just to get ONE good shot. Don't bother demanding your child to sit and smile because as I'm sure every parent knows, the harder you push a toddler, the harder they push back. And an irritated toddler doesn't give good smiles!
3. Busy
Taking pictures isn't the only part of our job. Sometimes it's not our only job at all! Please please please (yes, I'm on my knees begging!) be on time to your shoot. If you aren't going to be on time, at least give us a call and give us your ETA. We may have clients lined up right after you, we may only have a babysitter for a certain amount of time. Whatever the case may be, it's just plain good manners to let us know if you're going to be late. Barring a true, provable emergency, if you don't bother showing up, don't expect your deposit back. Just because we didn't shoot pictures doesn't mean we didn't spend time preparing for your shoot by gathering props, creating a pose list tailored to your shoot, checking the weather and lighting, etc.
4. An Artist
Photography is an art, just like painting. Each photographer has their own style. If you don't like what you see on their website, that photographer is not a good fit for you. People who like Picasso like his style. He is unique. Every photographer has their own unique style as well. You should hire your own Picasso. Don't hire any old photographer and request they change their style to what you want. Most photographers have spent years perfecting their style. Asking them to change it is not only insulting but also doesn't give them the necessary years of practice and will likely result in images not nearly as pleasing as you expect. Also, our status of being artists entitles us to be a little kooky and eccentric. It's the fun part of our job description. :-P
4 Things Your Photographer is NOT...
1. Walmart
As much as we'd LOVE (I think love isn't quite strong enough a word) to be grossing $405.6 billion per year, we aren't. Heck, I'd love to gross $405.6 thousand per year! But alas, we are all small businesses. We don't have the sales necessary to offer $5 portrait sheets. We also don't utilize cheap ink or poor quality paper just to keep costs down. We charge what we need to to not only keep our business afloat, but also food on our table. If that's outside of your budget, that's perfectly fine. Most photographers fall into the "starving artist" category and can't afford to book themselves, so it's not going to offend us if you can't afford us. It WILL offend us however, if you request us to price match someone else. Our price point is unique because our business is unique. Nobody but nobody is going to have the EXACT SAME costs as anyone else. Please understand that 99% of us aren't priced to be making $100,000 per year, we're priced to afford preschool for our kids, shoes for our feet and food for our bellies. If you want Walmart prices, go to Walmart! Just don't expect personal photographer quality for Walmart prices, and visa versa.
As a subnote to this, we're also not able to give things away for free no matter who you are. Asking us as your friend to "take a few shots of the party/event since you're here" would be like asking your dentist friend to "examine the teeth of all the guests for free since you're here". It's not okay to ask that. If we want to take a few pictures, we will. If we want to send you the pix we take, we will. Unless you're willing to pay our regular rate, please don't ask us to take "just a few pictures". You may get lucky and have a friend with a special friends and family rate, but remember, you wouldn't do your job for free, please don't expect us to do ours for free.
2. Plastic Surgeons
Photoshop is an AMAZING tool! Unfortunately, it doesn't substitute for a scalpel. We can easily hide zits, conceal under-eye bags and sometimes even shave off a few pounds here and there. We cannot turn a new-mommy-body into Gisele Bundchen's body with a few key strokes. (And if we could, we'd be in Hollywood making the aforementioned billions!) Moms are expected to have normal size 14-ish bodies, complete with a little pooch belly, and sometime, yes, even the feared double chin. If you can't love yourself the way you are, perhaps getting giant paper printouts of what you look like in all your natural glory isn't the right thing for you right now.
3. Magic
We can, in some ways, be thought of as magicians. We can take your memories, your precious children and photograph them in such a way that you will treasure their portraits, the captured moment, forever. But we cannot wave a magic wand and make your sugar-buzzing 3 year old sit still, brush their hair and smile like a Gerber baby. You are paying us for our time and our artistic talent. If someone (who may or may not even be of toddler age *cough* DAD, I'm talking to you!) doesn't want to cooperate, we can only try so hard. You (in most cases) are not obligated to buy prints if you don't like them, but please don't expect to be refunded for the session fee if pictures didn't turn out to your liking through no fault of our own. Please remember, we were out there, trying as hard as possible to get great pictures for you. We deserve to be compensated for our time. Depending on the situation you may even be offered a free or discounted re-shoot, but don't expect anything. Sometimes the child is a lost cause and will refuse to be photographed no matter what the situation. That doesn't say anything to your parenting or how good your child is, that just says your toddler is normal. Toddlers are miniature control freaks and if they don't want something to happen, it wont be happening no matter the bribe!
We also aren't mind readers. If there's a certain something you do or don't want, please tell us! Nicely :-)
4. A Robot
We are human. We feel overjoyed when we have a great shoot and we feel devastated when we have a terrible one. There is no need to treat us like anything other than living, breathing humans. We make mistakes sometimes. We don't deserve to be berated or ridiculed because we didn't get the shots you hoped for. When we get a shot you love, tell us! Share your joy! And for the love of pete, BE POLITE! Please and thank you go a loooooong way. I know several photographers that give free gifts and prints to clients that treat them like human friends instead of contracted camera slaves. Besides, it's just good manners :)
Despite all of the fun little intricacies people rarely consider, I still see my job as one of the funnest there is, and I know most of the photographers that inspired me to write this do to. I don't think any of us would trade it for the world. I think our goal is just to remind people that though our job is fun, it's still a job
4 Things Your Photographer Is and 4 Things They're Not
After spending countless hours, days, weeks and months perusing photographer forums I've come to the conclusion that there are 4 things your average family photographer most certainly IS and 4 things they are NOT. Please bear with me as I try to be funny through my sickie Sunday :D
4 Things Your Photographer IS...
1. A Parent
Every single family photographer I know is a parent. This means we are used to the hissy fits, the tragic meltdowns and the oil-to-water like aversion your toddler has to the camera. Every time I get an uncooperative toddler the parents apologize profusely for their behavior. Don't sweat it! It makes me feel better that my kids aren't the only ones that think standing still for 3 seconds is akin to getting your limbs ripped off. One simple apology will do just fine.
2. Patient
Sometimes it takes 10 mins of running around, dancing like a fool, making silly noises, and talking about crazy monkeys just to get ONE good shot. Don't bother demanding your child to sit and smile because as I'm sure every parent knows, the harder you push a toddler, the harder they push back. And an irritated toddler doesn't give good smiles!
3. Busy
Taking pictures isn't the only part of our job. Sometimes it's not our only job at all! Please please please (yes, I'm on my knees begging!) be on time to your shoot. If you aren't going to be on time, at least give us a call and give us your ETA. We may have clients lined up right after you, we may only have a babysitter for a certain amount of time. Whatever the case may be, it's just plain good manners to let us know if you're going to be late. Barring a true, provable emergency, if you don't bother showing up, don't expect your deposit back. Just because we didn't shoot pictures doesn't mean we didn't spend time preparing for your shoot by gathering props, creating a pose list tailored to your shoot, checking the weather and lighting, etc.
4. An Artist
Photography is an art, just like painting. Each photographer has their own style. If you don't like what you see on their website, that photographer is not a good fit for you. People who like Picasso like his style. He is unique. Every photographer has their own unique style as well. You should hire your own Picasso. Don't hire any old photographer and request they change their style to what you want. Most photographers have spent years perfecting their style. Asking them to change it is not only insulting but also doesn't give them the necessary years of practice and will likely result in images not nearly as pleasing as you expect. Also, our status of being artists entitles us to be a little kooky and eccentric. It's the fun part of our job description. :-P
4 Things Your Photographer is NOT...
1. Walmart
As much as we'd LOVE (I think love isn't quite strong enough a word) to be grossing $405.6 billion per year, we aren't. Heck, I'd love to gross $405.6 thousand per year! But alas, we are all small businesses. We don't have the sales necessary to offer $5 portrait sheets. We also don't utilize cheap ink or poor quality paper just to keep costs down. We charge what we need to to not only keep our business afloat, but also food on our table. If that's outside of your budget, that's perfectly fine. Most photographers fall into the "starving artist" category and can't afford to book themselves, so it's not going to offend us if you can't afford us. It WILL offend us however, if you request us to price match someone else. Our price point is unique because our business is unique. Nobody but nobody is going to have the EXACT SAME costs as anyone else. Please understand that 99% of us aren't priced to be making $100,000 per year, we're priced to afford preschool for our kids, shoes for our feet and food for our bellies. If you want Walmart prices, go to Walmart! Just don't expect personal photographer quality for Walmart prices, and visa versa.
As a subnote to this, we're also not able to give things away for free no matter who you are. Asking us as your friend to "take a few shots of the party/event since you're here" would be like asking your dentist friend to "examine the teeth of all the guests for free since you're here". It's not okay to ask that. If we want to take a few pictures, we will. If we want to send you the pix we take, we will. Unless you're willing to pay our regular rate, please don't ask us to take "just a few pictures". You may get lucky and have a friend with a special friends and family rate, but remember, you wouldn't do your job for free, please don't expect us to do ours for free.
2. Plastic Surgeons
Photoshop is an AMAZING tool! Unfortunately, it doesn't substitute for a scalpel. We can easily hide zits, conceal under-eye bags and sometimes even shave off a few pounds here and there. We cannot turn a new-mommy-body into Gisele Bundchen's body with a few key strokes. (And if we could, we'd be in Hollywood making the aforementioned billions!) Moms are expected to have normal size 14-ish bodies, complete with a little pooch belly, and sometime, yes, even the feared double chin. If you can't love yourself the way you are, perhaps getting giant paper printouts of what you look like in all your natural glory isn't the right thing for you right now.
3. Magic
We can, in some ways, be thought of as magicians. We can take your memories, your precious children and photograph them in such a way that you will treasure their portraits, the captured moment, forever. But we cannot wave a magic wand and make your sugar-buzzing 3 year old sit still, brush their hair and smile like a Gerber baby. You are paying us for our time and our artistic talent. If someone (who may or may not even be of toddler age *cough* DAD, I'm talking to you!) doesn't want to cooperate, we can only try so hard. You (in most cases) are not obligated to buy prints if you don't like them, but please don't expect to be refunded for the session fee if pictures didn't turn out to your liking through no fault of our own. Please remember, we were out there, trying as hard as possible to get great pictures for you. We deserve to be compensated for our time. Depending on the situation you may even be offered a free or discounted re-shoot, but don't expect anything. Sometimes the child is a lost cause and will refuse to be photographed no matter what the situation. That doesn't say anything to your parenting or how good your child is, that just says your toddler is normal. Toddlers are miniature control freaks and if they don't want something to happen, it wont be happening no matter the bribe!
We also aren't mind readers. If there's a certain something you do or don't want, please tell us! Nicely :-)
4. A Robot
We are human. We feel overjoyed when we have a great shoot and we feel devastated when we have a terrible one. There is no need to treat us like anything other than living, breathing humans. We make mistakes sometimes. We don't deserve to be berated or ridiculed because we didn't get the shots you hoped for. When we get a shot you love, tell us! Share your joy! And for the love of pete, BE POLITE! Please and thank you go a loooooong way. I know several photographers that give free gifts and prints to clients that treat them like human friends instead of contracted camera slaves. Besides, it's just good manners :)
Despite all of the fun little intricacies people rarely consider, I still see my job as one of the funnest there is, and I know most of the photographers that inspired me to write this do to. I don't think any of us would trade it for the world. I think our goal is just to remind people that though our job is fun, it's still a job
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
New year -- new resolutions
Hi again; can't believe how I have let my blog go for so long AGAIN! (darn Facebook!)So here it is, 2011 and I am once again resolving to post more on my blog.
This first entry will be about regular day-to-day pictures (what, pictures? why would I think about pictures?)
Over the Christmas holidays I must have been in a nostalgic mood, cuz when I was trying to figure out what to give my kids for Christmas (always a struggle, since they are guys, and being a girl AND their mother, we don't always think of the same things) I somehow came up with the idea of putting a CD together of past Christmases with our families. As I was going through my MANY photo albums of the past years, I noticed something terrible! After 2003ish I didn't have any pictures in the albums anymore.
After I started taking digital pictures I didn't print out prints anymore. At the time it seemed logical, why print out pictures when I could just save them to a CD and it takes up much less space, right? BUT as I was going through all of those wonderful memories from years past, suddenly I had to stop, look for the CD with the rest of the images and put them in my computer to view them. WAY too much work for me (yes, I'm basically lazy!). Not only that, I had to FIND those CD's.
There is something so relaxing and satisfying to thumb through a photo album and look at past years. Somehow viewing on a computer is not the same. More pluses? You don't need the computer to look at them, and you can write little notes or the dates on the back of the picture. You can gather the family around you on the floor or on the sofa and be comfortable. Much better than huddling around the computer screen, lol. And you can quickly thumb through the album to find that one picture you were looking for when you can't exactly remember when it was taken.
Maybe I'm a little old-fashioned, but I guess I have that right.
And yes the photo albums take up a little more space, but I think the benefits outweigh that little inconvenience.
Don't you?
This first entry will be about regular day-to-day pictures (what, pictures? why would I think about pictures?)
Over the Christmas holidays I must have been in a nostalgic mood, cuz when I was trying to figure out what to give my kids for Christmas (always a struggle, since they are guys, and being a girl AND their mother, we don't always think of the same things) I somehow came up with the idea of putting a CD together of past Christmases with our families. As I was going through my MANY photo albums of the past years, I noticed something terrible! After 2003ish I didn't have any pictures in the albums anymore.
After I started taking digital pictures I didn't print out prints anymore. At the time it seemed logical, why print out pictures when I could just save them to a CD and it takes up much less space, right? BUT as I was going through all of those wonderful memories from years past, suddenly I had to stop, look for the CD with the rest of the images and put them in my computer to view them. WAY too much work for me (yes, I'm basically lazy!). Not only that, I had to FIND those CD's.
There is something so relaxing and satisfying to thumb through a photo album and look at past years. Somehow viewing on a computer is not the same. More pluses? You don't need the computer to look at them, and you can write little notes or the dates on the back of the picture. You can gather the family around you on the floor or on the sofa and be comfortable. Much better than huddling around the computer screen, lol. And you can quickly thumb through the album to find that one picture you were looking for when you can't exactly remember when it was taken.
Maybe I'm a little old-fashioned, but I guess I have that right.
And yes the photo albums take up a little more space, but I think the benefits outweigh that little inconvenience.
Don't you?
Friday, March 19, 2010
Adorable cuties
Aren't these two little people just adorable? It was so much fun (a bit chaotic, but fun, lol!)
Little "J" did NOT want to sit, as soon as mom would put him down, he was off. Had to bring out some Cheerios, which worked for a little while. He has been coming here for pictures since he was born, and he is just as cute as ever!
Little "M" was so petite! She is like a little doll. This was her first time at my studio, but she was so good! Mom must have a fun time buying her clothes, look how cute she is in her outfit!
Little "J" did NOT want to sit, as soon as mom would put him down, he was off. Had to bring out some Cheerios, which worked for a little while. He has been coming here for pictures since he was born, and he is just as cute as ever!
Little "M" was so petite! She is like a little doll. This was her first time at my studio, but she was so good! Mom must have a fun time buying her clothes, look how cute she is in her outfit!
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Win a free camera!
EPIPHANIE IS GIVING AWAY A BRAND NEW CANON MARK II or $2500 AIRLINE GIFT CARD! GO TO THE BLOG FOR DETAILS! :) http://tinyurl.com/yejcmkl
Camelot Bridal Faire - March 7
I am going to be attending the Camelot Bridal Faire on March 7! Stop by my booth and say hello!
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Ocean
This little sweetheart came in with her mom. She is only 2 weeks old and so tiny! Couldn't believe how much hair she had. My babies were pretty bald, lol.
Everytime I photograph a little one like this, I can't believe people don't believe in miracles. Simply amazing.
K&C
I think mom and dad were more tired than I was by the end of the session, lol; but it was so much fun!
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Sara
Sunday, January 10, 2010
New stuff!
Recently bought some new props and a couple of new backgrounds! Can hardly wait to try them out! Almost like Christmas all over again, lol!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Dustin
"K"
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Family pets
Cute kids
Hey everyone! Hope you all had a great holiday! I know it snuck up on me, lol!
Had the pleasure of photographing these two cute kids over this past week. We had a fun time!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Tyler
Tyler came in recently for his graduation pictures. This guy already knows exactly what he is doing when he graduates, he is enlisting in the air force to be a linguist. I thought this was kind of cool, since my husband was also a linguist in the air force!
Anyway, his parents should be proud. Tyler is cool.
Little imp
This little guy came in recently with his mom and dad for some photos. 2 year olds certainly have a lot of energy, lol! He kept us moving (maybe I should have him come more often.....). Anyway, got some good expressions, you can tell he knew who was in charge!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Christmas Family Session
Want a Christmas picture of your family, (or just the kids) and you don't want to fight those department store lines, call me!
Friendly atmosphere, and NO LINES!
I am offering a special price of only $14.95 for a choice of either a fireplace background or a Christmas tree to your holiday cards.
PLUS you get free cards! With every order of 25 holiday cards, get 4 free! If you order 50 you will get 8 free.
Call for special print pricing details as well.
Friendly atmosphere, and NO LINES!
I am offering a special price of only $14.95 for a choice of either a fireplace background or a Christmas tree to your holiday cards.
PLUS you get free cards! With every order of 25 holiday cards, get 4 free! If you order 50 you will get 8 free.
Call for special print pricing details as well.
Hurry, time is running out, Christmas will be here before you know it!
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Ballerina
"D"
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